Message of the day: always try to become the right person. As a Christian, I realize that I don't have to find the right person to be happy, but becoming the right person by choosing to avoid sin and helping others everyday, prefering real peace and joy over pleasure.
i like that you realise this! but i hope you know that you shouldn't be doing it just because someone (god) wants you to, your kind acts should come off naturally, otherwise its all for nothing
and only avoid the sins you deem to be so, using your own moral compass and judgement, not those of others