heyaa, just saw the things you've said on your last post, I am so sorry to hear all that, about your school and the fear of your own parents disowning you/scared of disappointing them, all you said is valid tho i disagree with some stuff, mostly with the stereotypes stuff [+]

like owning a blahaj for example, its more of a internal joke inside the trans community than something we actually do, and about the "treating being trans as one's whole personality", most of the transfem people have the same opinion about that, and thats why i think its [+]

important to talk with other trans ppl having discussions like these are important when we never really had any contact with the community, it doesn't mean you got to have lgbt friends only, but its good to have someone around who faces the same issues and experiences as you do

being trans doesnt mean "omg now i will have to leave all the stuff i like behind and just do "girl things"", there are all kinds of trans girls, some are hyperfeminine, some are goth, some are artists, some make music, some still like to dress "boyish", there really isnt a rule+

when it comes to being trans. drawing a bit more of attention to your own gender identity and think about it is important because it is a part of who you are, its may not be your personality but its still a piece of who you are. dysphoria has nothing to do with what youve +

said tho, even cis people can feel dysphoria, its about being confortable in your own body, not a trans related issue. some trans feel dysphoria, some don't. but i really hope you dont give up on your real self, Daya :( you were meant to enjoy precure and you were meant to +

enjoy barbie, you were meant to enjoy anything you want, its such a shame the world's so mean to you, wish we could have it easier and that being different from what society says its "normal" wouldn't bring so much pain, stay strong girlie, never give up that spark inside of you+

sometimes i feel like being trans is such a burden and i wish i could just disappear, but at the same time its so beautiful, i hope things get easier for you and that you stop feeling like its wrong liking the things that you like, sending all love and support to you [+]

i think we'd make good friends, so lmk when you're not grounded anymore if you feel like it and feel free to add me if you want too 1859-1261-7341

tysm gabii i'll probably try to get a better grip on myself also i was never a barbie person i just wanted to watch the movie