congratulations about telling your aunt!! im so proud of you :› honestly, just take your time trying to open up to your mom. itll take time, but hopefully, when the time is right, youll feel it and tell her! [sorry for the sucky advice :( ]

I would try to subtly influence your mom the other way. Ask her about her opinions on gay people, and give gentle pushback and ask her why she might think that way. Make it clear you're cool with lgbt people, and act nonchalant about it. Don't let her bf get you down and good luc

Just ask her if she'd still love you even after. Chances are that she does and may open up herself to you to try to get you to reconsider your choices for the good of your own future.

It would be better off if you shared the same views w/her bf. However, if it turns out they're immature and you're not careful, they may resent you for being a wedge in the relationship.

Mothers usually love their offspring. So she might just want you to be safe. Being or not being LGBTQ+ will not make you any less or more happy. Instead focus on finding yourself. Ask her to be patient and to be there w/you as you do.

Most likely, your mother will side w/you no matter what happens. Good Luck and Stay safe!

congrats :D

Can't say chatting w/people online about it is wise. Came back because it is such a sensitive topic. So if you wanted to think it through, or maybe just needed someone to talk to: I'm here.

There's no rush. Strongly recommend thinking on it more and inviting trust worthy people who have your back in case it goes wrong. (Assuming cooperation.)

Don't let anyone pressure you into being or not being LGBTQ+. However, do consider if your choices were for yourself or someone else. And whether that was a good thing or not.

Yeyyyy congrats :D my gf broke up yersteday -_-

imo you should test the waters. dont come out JUST yet, see how she views lgbtq stuff first. idk your situation but it is ultimately a matter of safety

girl thats a great first step! sadly i do not have any good advice but yeah you should test the waters see what your mom thinks, at least you know someone who supports you. best of luck!